tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post113268837316088773..comments2023-06-28T10:43:07.626+01:00Comments on What doesn't kill you...: Bollocks to thisWDKYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15353336844486270059noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132794125717120692005-11-24T01:02:00.000+00:002005-11-24T01:02:00.000+00:00I will, Kimmy, and no - I haven't responded!I will, Kimmy, and no - I haven't responded!WDKYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15353336844486270059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132792938007538872005-11-24T00:42:00.000+00:002005-11-24T00:42:00.000+00:00Oy!• 7 emails---red flag• 3 messages on home telep...Oy!<BR/><BR/>• 7 emails---red flag<BR/>• 3 messages on home telephone answering service---RED flag!<BR/>• 8 text messages---RED FUCKING FLAG!<BR/><BR/>And to send an ex's email too? Sheesh. <BR/>Have you responded to any? I wouldn't. <BR/>Seems she is sounding a bit unstable.....<BR/><BR/>Take care of yourself and your children. <BR/>She's freakin me out and I don't even know her.kimmykhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15527009466610518600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132787749320331512005-11-23T23:15:00.000+00:002005-11-23T23:15:00.000+00:00I hope your day/evening has been better than yeste...I hope your day/evening has been better than yesterday.<BR/><BR/>Speaking of hyper needy exes... Mine is about to drive me up the effen wall! ;-)<BR/><BR/>xxBlondie...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00636237187491905263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132785301680005612005-11-23T22:35:00.000+00:002005-11-23T22:35:00.000+00:00Nukie... errr, yes. I think that might be what I'm...Nukie... errr, yes. I think that might be what I'm saying :-)<BR/><BR/>Or not, KOW!<BR/><BR/>Sky, it's easy. Try it, you'll see...<BR/><BR/>Sirreene - you're very wise. I'm sorry.<BR/><BR/>Blue, we can all be pillocks at times, regardless of gender. Sad, but true.<BR/><BR/>Pos, I thought you put that rather well. Good stuff!<BR/><BR/>C - really?? And thank you for being honest. I'm keeping on keeping on.<BR/><BR/>Jaimie - precisely!!<BR/><BR/>FJL... yes, what you say is absolutely true. I was reacting when I posted, but your measured comments are right on the button.WDKYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15353336844486270059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132778259721294322005-11-23T20:37:00.000+00:002005-11-23T20:37:00.000+00:00Hi WDKY, how are ya. Sorry you got bombarded by GG...Hi WDKY, how are ya. Sorry you got bombarded by GG. But I don't think you should worry, or call her a nutter. If she wasn't a nutter before, she isn't now, probably. You can pretty much ignore it, she's just having an end of relationship crisis. They happen. She's kind of washing you out of her hair, in a way. Saying everything she might never get the chance to. Like Blondie said, we're all guilty of this panick related silliness at rare times. Borne from lonely insecure moments. I don't think it reduces us all as people. Yes, it's completely daft, but she's no psycho. If she were going to weild a knife she'd have done it by now. Suddenly splitting up is a big break, it kind of makes us feel orphaned for abit. But she should understand you can't be dumped on in your position and it might be best to spell this out to her. She definitley isn't being fair to you. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Big hug.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132767048521994042005-11-23T17:30:00.000+00:002005-11-23T17:30:00.000+00:00Your decision seems to be the right one. And I don...Your decision seems to be the right one. And I don't think even someone without kids and a taking off business would have considered replying to any of GGs communiques. Don't get me wrong, I do think she sounds like a very intelligent and loving person, but her messages smell like the doings of regret and indecision. She has chosen to seperate and she hadn't prepared herself for the pain she would have caused herself. I call this triage in my somewhat limited talent for analogies. If a limb isn't working right, you take three long breaths and cut it off despite the pain it causes you. When its gone, you miss it for a while but you know in the long run you're better off without it. Harsh analog, I know, but that's what it feels like when you have to break up despite all the good times.positronichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04888036397424118009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132766298875880502005-11-23T17:18:00.000+00:002005-11-23T17:18:00.000+00:00Wow... some women just don't know when to quit. Th...Wow... some women just don't know when to quit. There's no more surefire way to send a guy running than what she's doing.<BR/><BR/>Women are always talking about how dumb men can be sometimes, but gosh. We're dumb sometimes too.Blueprincesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05637705735897814313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132754966332618022005-11-23T14:09:00.000+00:002005-11-23T14:09:00.000+00:00My first comment is about the barcelona sex photos...My first comment is about the barcelona sex photos. What scares me about this is isn't this where they do the Running of the Bulls?<BR/><BR/>WDKY, I give you a lot of credit for sticking to your instincts. I should try that some day :)Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00423490713505597436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132754074496484942005-11-23T13:54:00.000+00:002005-11-23T13:54:00.000+00:00Right on brother. Screw her.Right on brother. Screw her.k o whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15943129503916125851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132736761002196832005-11-23T09:06:00.000+00:002005-11-23T09:06:00.000+00:00Ruthie, I tend to react in a similar way, actually...Ruthie, I tend to react in a similar way, actually.<BR/><BR/>KD - you mean we're not??<BR/><BR/>Honkie, possibly not!<BR/><BR/>NWC - precisely.<BR/><BR/>NYM, <B>very</B> sick and twisted!<BR/><BR/>Cat, it's weird, isn't it?<BR/><BR/>NML - I see you're with me on this. It's madness.<BR/><BR/>EE, thanks for understanding :-)<BR/><BR/>LL, I;m chilled. And if you were just a little closer...<BR/><BR/>Sher, the flag is a very brfight red. As for the other business... ;-)WDKYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15353336844486270059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132703796757584542005-11-22T23:56:00.000+00:002005-11-22T23:56:00.000+00:00Well, patience isn't one of her virtues...lol...we...Well, patience isn't one of her virtues...lol...we see. I don't know what to tell ya....but you need to go chill out...and blow off some steam. Call some friends this weekend and go have fun! Or, I'm having a bedroom remodelling party this weekend if you want to come! lolladylongfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14688913284976426393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132699391543115632005-11-22T22:43:00.000+00:002005-11-22T22:43:00.000+00:00Wow what a complete overload. It's all a bit...muc...Wow what a complete overload. It's all a bit...much. I don't blame you for feeling how you do and you are right to follow your gut. GG needs to get a grip.NML/Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14649537721588885703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132696684990103612005-11-22T21:58:00.000+00:002005-11-22T21:58:00.000+00:00I'm glad you found out and that it makes it that m...I'm glad you found out and that it makes it that much easier on you now!!!<BR/><BR/>And I love reading how people get to our blogs - some of them I can't understand!Caterpillarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01337099007066020997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132695212913836792005-11-22T21:33:00.000+00:002005-11-22T21:33:00.000+00:00Yikes! My favorite part of this is that she IS th...Yikes! My favorite part of this is that she IS the one who ended it. Very amusing. (Ummm...in a sick & twisted sense...)NewYorkMomentshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18352113877701064150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132693471592801352005-11-22T21:04:00.000+00:002005-11-22T21:04:00.000+00:00Wow, now just think if you knew this about this pe...Wow, now just think if you knew this about this person in the begining would you even spoken to this person?honkeiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03517190745892738872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132692437016792962005-11-22T20:47:00.000+00:002005-11-22T20:47:00.000+00:00Trust your instincts and focus on what you need to...Trust your instincts and focus on what you need to do to make your life all it can be.<BR/><BR/>(And speaking of emotionally unbalanced - here I thought we were getting hitched) *laughs*Victoria Althttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11868473220753334664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10457000.post-1132690779028222222005-11-22T20:19:00.000+00:002005-11-22T20:19:00.000+00:00Wow...I cringed a bit because I have to say I've b...Wow...<BR/>I cringed a bit because I have to say I've been guilty of being pushy to find out why a lack of communication has occurred... But only at a friend or significant other that just I didn't hear a peep from...not after a breakup.<BR/><BR/>BUT<BR/><BR/>When I broke stuff off...that was it. I'm a person that can cut the ties a little too easy. <BR/><BR/>Like I said, Wow...<BR/><BR/>You have a lot on your plate right now WDKY. I think just fading out to focus on your current needs is a bit more important. *blushing* If it were me, I'd just stop responding. I've done it before...and I can probably say it will happen again. I know I sound harsh. <BR/><BR/>I promise I'm a tender person, but when I'm done, I'm done. She made her point and needs to own up to the fact that she made a decision. Love isn't something you can just retract and reinstate at your own convienence.<BR/><BR/>Sorry for the tangent.<BR/>xx<BR/>RBlondie...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00636237187491905263noreply@blogger.com